The Secret to Making this a Great Day

 

Today can be the best day of my life even if despite the fact that I’ve accepted my changing appearance, I look in the mirror and catch myself wincing.

Even if I believe I love unconditionally and then a loved one doesn’t do what I want.

Even if I’ve come to a place of forgiveness and find myself ripping up faded photos and setting them on fire.

Even if I finally speak my truth, willing to take the consequences, and then there are consequences.

Even if  everything finally makes sense, I’ve healed my original wound and fulfilled my life’s purpose and am bored to tears.

So what can redeem this day, regardless of what life brings my way?  Responding to the voice inside me telling me that I’m the only one who isn’t doing conscious aging right by having my first big laugh of the day.
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Second big laugh of the day, if you recall how many times I’ve announced my retirement from public appearances and yet here I am, yet again, called back to duty. Hope to see you at one of these upcoming virtual appearances! 

Oct 27: Reimagining the Elder for Our Cultural Moment. Care of the Soul author Thomas Moore and I close out Day 4 of Humanity Rising’s free 5-day virtual “rite of passage”: The Inner Work of Age: Shifting from Role to Soul. (Oct. 24 – 28, 8 – 9:30 am, Pacific Time, each day).For a description of the Oct 27 web event, visit: https://ubiverse.org/events/humanity-rising-day-569

Other presenters throughout the week include Harry (Rick) Moody, Roshi Joan Halifax, Robert Thurman, Mirabai Bush and many more. Convener and host is author Connie Zweig.

To register for daily events on Humanity Rising visit: www.humanityrising.solutions

December 3: The Making of an Old Soul Women’s Retreat, a 2-hour online retreat. I will be leading this interactive event for The Spirit of Sophia, https://spiritofsophia.org/, a women’s spirituality center based in Louisville.

January 18: The Making of an Old Soul: Aging as the Fulfillment of Life’s Promise. A combination webinar/retreat for Sage-ing International. https://www.sage-ing.org/


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About Carol Orsborn

Carol Orsborn, Ph.D. has written over 30 books including her critically-acclaimed Older, Wiser, Fiercer: The Wisdom Collection and The Spirituality of Age: A Seeker’s Guide to Growing Older with Dr. Robert L. Weber, which was awarded Gold in the Nautilus Book Awards in the category of Aging Consciously. She is founder and curator of Fierce with Age: The Archives of Boomer Wisdom, Inspiration and Spirituality housed at CarolOrsborn.com. She is host of the 2 leading book clubs in the field of conscious aging: Sage-ing International's live, virtual The Sage-ing Book Club and the in-person Conscious Aging Book Club, sponsored by Parnassus Books, Nashville. She received her doctorate in the History and Critical Theory of Religion from Vanderbilt University with specialization in the areas of adult spiritual development and ritual studies.